Miss Kristy

Hello bois! For those who don't know Me. I am Miss Kristy. Long time member of this site. I've been away dominating the real world making grown men cry at my feet and taking a much needed vacation while the pandemic has gone on. Well guess what bitches? I'm back in full force and offering my extreme budgeting and extensive submissive therapy. This is not for the weak or the poor. I don't do anything small or anyone lol! Ask my lovers! If you think you have what it takes you can correctly message me asking to serve. Only a few will make the cut. Only a few here have previously graduated to become elite submissives. Can you join their ranks?  We shall see. Step up if you dare. 

There comes a time when our subs lose their way...get lost. They lose focus on themselves and need to find themselves again. We as their Mistresses must guide them, nurture them and communicate with them. Let them know we are there for them no matter what the circumstances are. That our time with them is crucial to the D/s relationship that we build with them. Making sure they know we are there for them no matter how far apart we are from them, time of day, or communication method. The trust they give us with their personal lives and their thoughts, secrets and desires is an emotional roller coaster for them and they trust us to use that and help them emotionally. They share their feelings and inner most secrets with us, entrusting us to guide them along their journey to submission. Knowing that we alone understand them as no vanilla person can and do not judge them based on their fetishes and desires. That we accept them for who they are and want to open their minds to their fetishes and desires. Our roles as Mistresses is to teach them that they are unique and build on that relationship that they have entrusted us with. To keep that bond and trust with them as no one people can. Letting them step out of their comfort zones and try new things but making sure it is done carefully and with 100% honesty and trust. Communication is the key to a long lasting D/s relationship. It helps build a comfort level to show emotions, fears, and likes. Trusts and bonds are strengthened which are all key to the relationship. Remembering the basics helps keep a comfort level strong, healthy and trusting feeling between the Domme and her sub. Real life problems can take a toll on a sub emotionally and seem complex and tireless. But remember to re-iterate that they are not alone and that is why they came to us in the beginning to guide them, nurture them and strengthen them. Always remember that the key to any good D/s relationship is that emotional and mental bond that you have with them. Never let them forget that and your bond will grow even stronger.

Admin brought up the discussion of her Paypals being shut down. For years now PayPal and other financial institutions have been targeting sex workers and shutting down their accounts with no warning, no replies, no reasons, and holding up hundreds of dollars in cash. Some of us have warned others not to post your PP on social media as to not alert them. Not to have your subs leave any remarks that would indicate any type of sex work related exchange is happening on any of thr multiple pay sites. They will shut you down. Pay Pal, Venmo, Zelle, Chime, Xoom, Square, Cash App. Even if you have a legit business account with any of these, if there is any indication your account is affiliated with sex work, you can kiss that account goodbye. Go ahead and try and open another one, they somehow figure it out its you and shut it right back down again. Fictitious names, emails, addresses, it doesnt work. They know. My daughter works for one of the top 3 major financial institutions. She herself was a findom princess at one point, she still dabbles in it from time to time. She told me its going to get harder and harder for money to be exchanged over the internet for sex workers in the next 1-2 years. Visa, MasterCard, Amex, Discover, they are all cracking down and have stiff penalties for any merchant who allows transactions from sex workers. No one wants that liability. Keep your transactions on the DOWN LOW. I can not state this enough!!! Do not have your subs/slaves put little notes in their tributes saying thank you Mistress. They can do that in Skype or an email to you. That will get flagged. Do not sign the tribute your sub. Do not use the word tribute, findom, slave, sub, Domme, Mistress. Do you see the pattern here? Right now you can use the following sites:--- Transferwise. You get a debit card, Cash can be transfered to the account via wire, direct deposit, its all prepaid, kind of like green dot. I use it for a vanilla business I have for overseas customers and it works great and its quick. --- Payoneer. Another prepaid account. Same concept. You get a debit card. Cash can be deosited into your account and transfered out. --- Cashapp. Another prepaid card. Same thing. Money gets transferred into your account via a tag name. Which goes into an account then you can spend from a prepaid card or transfer to your bank. ALL OF THESE NEED TO HAVE AN APPLICATION FILLED OUT. No deposits are required, but sensitive information is required. I have accounts with all 3 and have for about 3 years now and have not have any issues, as long as you play by the rules. STAY AWAY FROM- Western Union, Pay Pal, Square, Zelle, Venmo, Chime, Xoom. I am all for prepaid debit cards that can be reloaded such as green dot, blu Amex etc. Credit or debit card to reloadable works just fine. I know this was long but I really wanted to get my point across how serious this is. Do you really want to lose money? I personally know ladies who have lost thousands of dollars never released by PayPal or venmo because of their ToS. Sucks to be them. Dont be a statistic. Play by their rules. Stay quiet. Keep it clean. Use prepaid. If a slave tells you he cant, hes lying. Every CVS, Walgreens, Dollar Store, Walmart, Grocery Store, now sells every prepaid card for most of these accounts. Including Amazon, Green dot prepaid, Blue Amex, Vanilla Visa reloads. Dont let them fool you. 10+ years of experience talking right here. Free Advice For You Today. I hope this helps. Until next times teachable moment! Stay Classy, Sassy, and Smart Assy! MK      

I have a few subs who I have real intellectual conversations with and I love pushing their minds about an array of topics. Me, being a sapiosexual person, (look it up if you don't know what that is boys) actually looks forward to these rare emails where its paragraphs of replies. We had a long conversation the other day about submission or subjugation. Which came first? A good sub should want to submit. However, a Domme can push limits, require a sub to do something hes uncomfortable with, but he does it because it makes his Domme happy. So is it both? Or just one? What is everyones thoughts? Id like to see your answers on the subject of which you think came first? Or can they be interlinked as the same.  Til next time.