A Findom Cerebral Sadist. Controlling your Wallet and Mind
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A submissive is free to do whatever they desire, whenever they desire. Yet even with all their freed... View more
I love when my houseboy shows up, masked, gloved, and ready for chores!
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Again, you can properly email Me to serve me. I don't Kik. There are ways to contact Me. And make it worthy
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April 15, 2021
Hi Kristy! I saw I missed you in chat! Nice to see you around town :)
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Good for you. You can message me appropriately to serve. I dont contact subs.
Miss Kristy
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April 13, 2021
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Hello bois!
For those who don't know Me. I am Miss Kristy. Long time member of this site. I've been away dominating the real world making grown men cry at my feet and taking a much needed vacation while the pandemic has gone on. Well guess what bitches? I'm back in full force and offering my extreme budgeting and extensive submissive therapy. This is not for the weak or the poor. I don't do anything small or anyone lol! Ask my lovers! If you think you have what it takes you can correctly message me asking to serve. Only a few will make the cut. Only a few here have previously graduated to become elite submissives. Can you join their ranks?
We shall see. Step up if you dare.
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Miss Kristy
posted a comment on Admin's blog "Why we are SO strict on nude, semi nude and cover up pics when it comes to Dommes."
Its sad you even have to write this. I dont even know why you need to be nude. I never been nude to be a FinDom or a Domme and never will be.
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December 15, 2019
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There comes a time when our subs lose their way...get lost. They lose focus on themselves and need to find themselves again. We as their Mistresses must guide them, nurture them and communicate with them. Let them know we are there for them no matter what the circumstances are. That our time with them is crucial to the D/s relationship that we build with them. Making sure they know we are there for them no matter how far apart we are from them, time of day, or communication method. The trust they give us with their personal lives and their thoughts, secrets and desires is an emotional roller coaster for them and they trust us to use that and help them emotionally.
They share their feelings and inner most secrets with us, entrusting us to guide them along their journey to submission. Knowing that we alone understand them as no vanilla person can and do not judge them based on their fetishes and desires. That we accept them for who they are and want to open their minds to their fetishes and desires. Our roles as Mistresses is to teach them that they are unique and build on that relationship that they have entrusted us with. To keep that bond and trust with them as no one people can.
Letting them step out of their comfort zones and try new things but making sure it is done carefully and with 100% honesty and trust. Communication is the key to a long lasting D/s relationship. It helps build a comfort level to show
emotions, fears, and likes. Trusts and bonds are strengthened which are all key to the relationship. Remembering the basics helps keep a comfort level strong, healthy and trusting feeling between the Domme and her sub. Real life problems can take a toll on a sub emotionally and seem complex and tireless. But remember to re-iterate that they are not alone and that is why they came to us in the beginning to guide them, nurture them and strengthen them.
Always remember that the key to any good D/s relationship is that emotional and mental bond that you have with them. Never let them forget that and your bond will grow even stronger.
Miss Kristy
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This is how you not approach a Domme and comment on a thread she posted. I am still laughing inside.
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Miss Kristy
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November 11, 2019
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Admin brought up the discussion of her Paypals being shut down. For years now PayPal and other financial institutions have been targeting sex workers and shutting down their accounts with no warning, no replies, no reasons, and holding up hundreds of dollars in cash. Some of us have warned others not to post your PP on social media as to not alert them. Not to have your subs leave any remarks that would indicate any type of sex work related exchange is happening on any of thr multiple pay sites. They will shut you down. Pay Pal, Venmo, Zelle, Chime, Xoom, Square, Cash App. Even if you have a legit business account with any of these, if there is any indication your account is affiliated with sex work, you can kiss that account goodbye. Go ahead and try and open another one, they somehow figure it out its you and shut it right back down again. Fictitious names, emails, addresses, it doesnt work. They know.
My daughter works for one of the top 3 major financial institutions. She herself was a findom princess at one point, she still dabbles in it from time to time. She told me its going to get harder and harder for money to be exchanged over the internet for sex workers in the next 1-2 years. Visa, MasterCard, Amex, Discover, they are all cracking down and have stiff penalties for any merchant who allows transactions from sex workers. No one wants that liability. Keep your transactions on the DOWN LOW. I can not state this enough!!! Do not have your subs/slaves put little notes in their tributes saying thank you Mistress. They can do that in Skype or an email to you. That will get flagged. Do not sign the tribute your sub. Do not use the word tribute, findom, slave, sub, Domme, Mistress. Do you see the pattern here?
Right now you can use the following sites:--- Transferwise. You get a debit card, Cash can be transfered to the account via wire, direct deposit, its all prepaid, kind of like green dot. I use it for a vanilla business I have for overseas customers and it works great and its quick. --- Payoneer. Another prepaid account. Same concept. You get a debit card. Cash can be deosited into your account and transfered out. --- Cashapp. Another prepaid card. Same thing. Money gets transferred into your account via a tag name. Which goes into an account then you can spend from a prepaid card or transfer to your bank. ALL OF THESE NEED TO HAVE AN APPLICATION FILLED OUT. No deposits are required, but sensitive information is required. I have accounts with all 3 and have for about 3 years now and have not have any issues, as long as you play by the rules.
STAY AWAY FROM- Western Union, Pay Pal, Square, Zelle, Venmo, Chime, Xoom. I am all for prepaid debit cards that can be reloaded such as green dot, blu Amex etc. Credit or debit card to reloadable works just fine. I know this was long but I really wanted to get my point across how serious this is. Do you really want to lose money? I personally know ladies who have lost thousands of dollars never released by PayPal or venmo because of their ToS. Sucks to be them. Dont be a statistic. Play by their rules. Stay quiet. Keep it clean. Use prepaid.
If a slave tells you he cant, hes lying. Every CVS, Walgreens, Dollar Store, Walmart, Grocery Store, now sells every prepaid card for most of these accounts. Including Amazon, Green dot prepaid, Blue Amex, Vanilla Visa reloads. Dont let them fool you. 10+ years of experience talking right here. Free Advice For You Today. I hope this helps. Until next times teachable moment! Stay Classy, Sassy, and Smart Assy!
MK
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November 12, 2019
Sign up for indie bill. Then sign up for the serving link. Boleyn models. They send payments everyday.
Miss Kristy
posted a comment on Admin's blog "Alternative payments methods other than Paypal. Paypal is shutting down accounts.."
@queenfaev I'll work on it later today while I'm not as tired. And I'll get some more facts and some links to the sites and info hiw to use them. If thats ok with Admin
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Miss Kristy
posted a comment on Admin's blog "Alternative payments methods other than Paypal. Paypal is shutting down accounts.."
Miss Kristy
posted a comment on Admin's blog "Alternative payments methods other than Paypal. Paypal is shutting down accounts.."
Banjo, cashapp, also try payoneer or transferwise. If you want more info on transferwise let me know. I use it for a side business. It looks complicated but its really not
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Miss Kristy
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November 4, 2019
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I have a few subs who I have real intellectual conversations with and I love pushing their minds about an array of topics. Me, being a sapiosexual person, (look it up if you don't know what that is boys) actually looks forward to these rare emails where its paragraphs of replies. We had a long conversation the other day about submission or subjugation. Which came first? A good sub should want to submit. However, a Domme can push limits, require a sub to do something hes uncomfortable with, but he does it because it makes his Domme happy. So is it both? Or just one? What is everyones thoughts? Id like to see your answers on the subject of which you think came first? Or can they be interlinked as the same.
Til next time.
Miss Kristy
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October 22, 2019
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The past 3 years have been a blur for me. I recently moved back to Arizona and now living with Princess Paris aka my daughter. My health has deteriorated more and my back and neck have gotten worse. I'm scheduled to meet with a Neuro surgeon to talk about neck surgery. I was really active in the kink community back in Dallas and miss it alot. I was in a very toxic environment before I left Texas. My subby boyfriends roomy, who was female, assaulted me while he watched for 45 mins. They had gone day drinking and were drunk. I couldnt defend myself and she bruised me up pretty good to where I called the police and they took me to the ER. Long story short, he moved me away to his ranch house 150 miles away let her stay in his house and took her side leaving me to deal with the aftermath and emotions of an assault on my own, which caused me to spiral out of control and into a very dark world. Hence the move back to Arizona. Now I am back in the scene, have a new foot boy and some new potential suitors, a lovely fin sub who loves to send me gifts and I am working on getting back to attending events ans hoping to be on the Board for ClubFem Arizona. I missed this Findoms site alot and everyone on it. But real life takes over sometimes and you have to step away. September was 7 years that I've been on this site. It seems like it was just yesterday. I'm looking forward to getting back into it, talking to some new potential boys who want to serve and dominating again and getting to talk to some old friends and meeting some new ones. If you would like to chat, ask me a question, get to know more about me, just drop me a line. I'll get back to you as soon as I can. As always make that money, serve well, and obey.
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