Findoms Guidelines

Being online for many years we have learned a lot about what the community wants. Many of these guidelines are through trial and error and have come from what the members wanted for Findoms.com. We are unable to explain every rule but, can assure you these have come out of many different situations and are necessary. We have these in place to avoid the drama you see on many other social platforms. It has worked well for us and as much as we don’t like to have any rules, we find they are needed to have a pleasant experience for all.

  • Posts/comments/pics/etc regarding anything involving trade of sexual acts for monetary gain.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of anyone who looks or is under the age of 18. We may ask to see proof of age.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc regarding Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies, Escorts, Prostitution
  • Sugar Baby OR Sugar Daddy Usernames.
  • No posts/comments/pics/etc regrading race or hate speech of any kind. this includes fetish play of these subjects.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of blackmail in any form. this means consensual also.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of another members personal info, private message they sent to you on the site etc
  • Trashing Findoms.com on Twitter or any other social media. this includes trying to engage @findoms publicly 
  • Any types of threats or harassment of other members
  • We expect a drama free community and will not tolerate any malicious behavior on any level. 
  • If you have an issue with a member you can block them by clicking the drop down on their profile.
  • We will not tolerate bullying or bully mentality of any kind here.
  • Any harrassment, threats or attacks from other members or gorups of members that make you feel unsafe should be reported to admin
  • No nude pics from Dommes or slaves, this includes cover ups, hands over breasts stickers or blurred out parts etc. No nipples OR areola showing. Also no pics where your bottom half is showing and we cannot see your panties. If your pic gets deleted for this. We will not accept “well this member has a nude pic” as an excuse. If you have a nude and we see it, its coming down, period! We CANNOT see all pics out of tens of thousands,so if you see one please report it. Semi-nude pics in a Chastity device is ok.
  • If you break any of these image rules the first infraction after a warning is a 1 week ban. 2nd Infraction 1 month ban. 3rd in fraction lifetime ban. If we make a decision that its a its a TOS but its not clearly stated in these rules you will not be penalized.  These rules come from mainly from Dommes who want the site to remain Findom. Admin reserves the right to delete ANY pics.
  • No pics smoking weed or doing drugs of any kind. This means blunts, bongs etc. We are not sure of the legalities per state so for now please dont post pics of that.
  • This is a private community and we dont give permission to take and post screenshots of ANY part of Findoms.com
  • We will not tolerate ANYONE trying to cause drama on social media with Findoms.com. Especially Twitter, if you have any issues Im always available.
  • No posts/comments/pics/etc asking for a donation of any kind. this means cancer, rent etc. We have had this before only to find out the members were just scamming. We are a Findom site and feel its unfair to use a hardship to make money. If you have a genuine hardship we understand but we cant have those posts here as we have had too many problems.
  • We are Pro Femdom, Pro female and ask members not to make any “Better than your wife” type posts. 
  • A member was rude to you in private messages. Block that member!
  • No public discussion of cashpoint or real time meets in person. this Fosta/Sesta bill is VERY strict.
  • No drama posts. This is not Twitter. Members enjoy this site because they can get away from the drama. Also no under the radar type of shots about other members. We dont want drama. Take it private please.
  • We are not responsible for ANY transactions. This means a slave wasted your time or a Domme didn’t give you a session you like.  If you have an issue please contact the payment processor you went though as Findoms has nothing to do with transactions made off site.
  • If a member charges you back on a transaction it is okay to let us know so we can see if the member is doing that to others.
  • We will NOT ban a member because you feel we should. Please do NOT ask. If a member is harassing you publicly on site you can report and we will look into it.
  • We will not tolerate anyone causing problems with our staff members. They are here helping on their own time and work hard to do what I ask them to do.
  • If you have any issue with a staff member please just message Admin. I’m fair regarding all members, even when staff is involved and will help to resolve any issues you may have confidentially.
  • First infraction ( as long as its not a serious infraction as listed in Fosta/Sesta section ) a warning.
  • Second infraction will be a ban from 3 days to 1 month depending on the infraction.
  • Third infraction will be a ban from Findoms.com
By no means are we EVER looking to ban members. So if you get an infraction dont worry. Depending on the situation I will also start you from scratch if you go awhile without any issues. 

What will determine a great deal is if i have to debate and argue the guidelines with members when I mesage them. Its NOT personal and no one is looking to get anyone on an infraction. Its best to say ok and not to do it again.

I will NO longer debate for hours about the rules. They are here for a reason.

Our mission is to have a peaceful non-judgemental community where like minded individuals can explore their fetish. We want everyone to have a great experience in our awesome community.

  • Posts/comments/pics/etc regarding anything involving trade of sexual acts for monetary gain.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of anyone who looks or is under the age of 18. We may ask to see proof of age.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc regarding Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies, Escorts, Prostitution
  • Sugar Baby OR Sugar Daddy Usernames.
  • No posts/comments/pics/etc regrading race or hate speech of any kind. this includes fetish play of these subjects.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of blackmail in any form. this means consensual also.
  • Posts/comments/pics/etc of another members personal info, private message they sent to you on the site etc
  • Trashing Findoms.com on Twitter or any other social media. this includes trying to engage @findoms publicly 
  • Any types of threats or harassment of other members
  • We expect a drama free community and will not tolerate any malicious behavior on any level. 
  • If you have an issue with a member you can block them by clicking the drop down on their profile.
  • We will not tolerate bullying or bully mentality of any kind here.
  • Any harrassment, threats or attacks from other members or gorups of members that make you feel unsafe should be reported to admin
  • No nude pics from Dommes or slaves, this includes cover ups, hands over breasts stickers or blurred out parts etc. If your pic gets deleted for this. We will not accept “well this member has a nude pic” as an excuse. If you have a nude and we see it, its coming down, period! We CANNOT see all pics out of tens of thousands,so if you see one please report it. Semi-nude pics in a Chastity device is ok 
  • No pics smoking weed or doing drugs of any kind. This means blunts, bongs etc. We are not sure of the legalities per state so for now please dont post pics of that.
  • This is a private community and we dont give permission to take and post screenshots of ANY part of Findoms.com
  • We will not tolerate ANYONE trying to cause drama on social media with Findoms.com. Especially Twitter, if you have any issues Im always available.
  • No posts/comments/pics/etc asking for a donation of any kind. this means cancer, rent etc. We have had this before only to find out the members were just scamming. We are a Findom site and feel its unfair to use a hardship to make money. If you have a genuine hardship we understand but we cant have those posts here as we have had too many problems.
  • We are Pro Femdom, Pro female and ask members not to make any “Better than your wife” type posts. 
  • A member was rude to you in private messages. Block that member!
  • No public discussion of cashpoint or real time meets in person. this Fosta/Sesta bill is VERY strict.
  • No drama posts. This is not Twitter. Members enjoy this site because they can get away from the drama. Also no under the radar type of shots about other members. We dont want drama. Take it private please.
  • We are not responsible for ANY transactions. This means a slave wasted your time or a Domme didn’t give you a session you like.  If you have an issue please contact the payment processor you went though as Findoms has nothing to do with transactions made off site.
  • If a member charges you back on a transaction it is okay to let us know so we can see if the member is doing that to others.
  • We will NOT ban a member because you feel we should. Please do NOT ask. If a member is harassing you publicly on site you can report and we will look into it.
  • We will not tolerate anyone causing problems with our staff members. They are here helping on their own time and work hard to do what I ask them to do.
  • If you have any issue with a staff member please just message Admin. I’m fair regarding all members, even when staff is involved and will help to resolve any issues you may have confidentially.
  • First infraction ( as long as its not a serious infraction as listed in Fosta/Sesta section ) a warning.
  • Second infraction will be a ban from 3 days to 1 month depending on the infraction.
  • Third infraction will be a ban from Findoms.com
By no means are we EVER looking to ban members. So if you get an infraction dont worry. Depending on the situation I will also start you from scratch if you go awhile without any issues. 

What will determine a great deal is if i have to debate and argue the guidelines with members when I mesage them. Its NOT personal and no one is looking to get anyone on an infraction. Its best to say ok and not to do it again.

I will NO longer debate for hours about the rules. They are here for a reason.