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by on May 24, 2020
I knew from the tender age of 18 that I held a power over the male portion of the species. There was no denying that I had males doing my bidding from such an early age. I lived effortlessly for a time whence I got my own abode. Had a servant for literally every thing I could think of. I grew a bit lazy for a time and for a time it was good. But as I aged I discovered the nuances of the male servitude and what it truly meant to me. I realized in my laziness I had come to rely on their service. W...
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by on May 24, 2020
I have two personalities.    I have the personality the world knows me by. And I have the personality my Queen knows me by.    Being a sub allows me the opportunity to explore both sides of my personality.  It's the Yin to my Yang   During the day, I have the privilege of leading a team of amazing and talented people. And I absolutely love it. I love that the buck stops with me. I love the responsibility for providing them with a lively hood. I love that we are creating my vision. ...
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by on May 23, 2020
My new 2 year Slave Contract is below. Changes from past years are: 1) Due to the stock market drop, slave's spending on Mistress Pauley has been reduced. The body of the contract was not changed but the new spending is described in Additions 1 and 2. 2) Orgasm Denial has been loosened so slave may infrequently ask Mistress Pauley for release. This is due to medical issues. 3) A new Week of Devotion to Mistress Pauley section has been added. 4) Permanent commitments have been expande...
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by on May 21, 2020
These past few weeks, there's been a  renaissance in my service to my Queen.    I've always been Hers, but now I feel a renewed enthusiasm and I've taken my service to Her up a notch.    These past couple of weeks have taught me the importance of sacrificing for Her.    I'm not talking about sacrificing my health or future, just my present. Queen would never ask me to go into debt or take out huge loans or take money out of my savings in order to spend on Her. I trust Her implicitly ...
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by on May 19, 2020
I shouldnt have to say this but this is an adult site and uploading pics of kids or babies is just NOT something we will allow. Even if its a meme, mistake or whatever. I shouldnt have to argue these things. Im about as nice as I can be, but when it comes to this MOST of the time I will remeove the member. We should ALL know this not the place for pics of kids in ANY fashion.  Thank You
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by on May 19, 2020
It's been a while since I've written a poem.  Here goes nothing.    On my knees I wait for Her The one I worship and adore At Her beck and call I am I crawl to Her forever more   As Her sub I belong to Her I've gladly handed Her the key To control me as She sees fit  Because I love that She owns me.    I try my best to please my Queen And work as hard as I possibly could Thats exactly what She deserves And I'll give to Her as I should   Shopping and...
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by on May 18, 2020
I dont care how good you are for me in the present, past or will be in the future, if you fuck things up there will be consequences. You are not likely to like them, which is kind of the teaching point. Serving me financially is not a right afforded to just anyone just because they have money to burn. Serving me financially is a privilege afforded to the good boys who have proven themselves to have my best interests at heart. But, when you fuck things up dont think you can buy your way out of it...
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by on May 18, 2020
What you said: Hello Dr. Kay, I have been scammed many times before so I do not send money right away and I only give in cash so no CashApp or Venmo or PayPal or amazon but I want to get to know each other so I'm going to keep messaging you every day, all day and if you keep responding, you should trust that I will send you gifts in the future.    What I Heard   [bonus points if you remember watching this cartoon]
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by on May 17, 2020
What I'm going to write isn't a be all for everyone. I get that.    But I wanted to share with you my thoughts on being a submissive. Beyond the fetish and kinks, the whips and chains, and the leather and latex.    At its core, being a submissive means conforming to the authority of another.    It means bending to the will of a dominant figure.  Why do I volunteer myself to be a submissive?  Quite simply, I love conforming to the desires of my Queen.    I love the feeling of b...
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by on May 14, 2020
Tonight is THE night! You've waited all week for it. And in just a few hours, all your hard work is going to be paid off.    You bought Her a hot new dress and some new heels for the occasion.    You've called Her favorite restaurant to make reservations, surprising Her by ordering a bottle of Her favorite wine.    You paid for Her mani/pedi that just wrapped up.     And finally, right before She's about to leave She sends you a pic with the message "think my boyfriend will li...
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by on May 13, 2020
This is my origin story.    Back in college (circa 2002/3) I was dating someone who was absolutely gorgeous. And I just had this inert need to please her.    I didn't know what it meant to be a sub. And I'm not sure she knew what it meant to be a Domme.    But over time, our relationship changed to her giving orders and me taking them. It wasn't anything huge.    But in the middle of the day, I'd get a text saying "come over and rub my feet".  I had no idea why it turned me on, b...
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by on May 13, 2020
It's been a while since my last blog, so it's about that time again. I know this is a little bit of a different sort of blog entry for this site, but hear me out!   This is a topic that I don't really speak much about, but I figure now is the perfect time. It's May, which is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome awareness month - and, somewhat poetically, also my birthday month (May 31st). For those of you who don't know, EDS is a collection of genetic disorders that affect connective tissue. This leads ...
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