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by on 1 hour ago
this was a little something I wrote in psuedo poem formation, please dont be too harsh...lol. And I hope this is findoms compliant per the rules.   Do I perplex you?  Do I make you mad?  Do you think you can gift me only when it suits you?  Do you think you can linger around and just pop into my life whenever it suits you?  Do you expect to pop up and be welcomed back with open arms?  Do you  not expect me to be mad or at best ambivilent that you returned? Do I only care about the gi...
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by on Yesterday, 12:51 pm
I wanted to make this announcement as we are getting busier and there is more traffic on the site. We are a community and we all try and help each other. Regarding our verifiers I wanted to make everyone aware, they are volunteering on the site They do quite a bit of work day in and day out and I do not pay them. You can consider them individuals who are here who use the site as any other member. They represent themselves.  They are also just like myself and anyone else, we are not perfect...
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by on September 19, 2019
On September 8, 2013, I messaged Mistress Pauley here in findoms. I went on about how I could not serve anyone, it was too expensive and so on. After I finished the message, I realized it was entirely too long for someone who was not going to serve. I then sent another message and I have been serving Mistress Pauley since. Now, my first period of service was "come and go." But after March 2015, I committed to serve Mistress continually and have been serving her ever since. We now have a Slave Co...
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by on September 19, 2019
On September 15, 2016, Mistress Pauley put me on her Orgasm Denial Program. I had to go off in February, 2018 for medical reasons giving 17 months of not being allowed to release. I then went back on Mistress' Orgasm Denial Program in May 2018 and had to go off again in August 2019 for medical reasons, giving 15 months of no release. Now I am thinking that I should not set complete abstinence from release as a goal. Due to occasional medical problems it is apparently not realistic. So I am th...
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by on September 18, 2019
I have noticed more activity here lately as Twitter and other sites start to crack down on everything. I would like to start lightening up on some of what we dont allow and see how that goes. It doesnt mean set in stone but people are tired of being censored in an alternative community. And we are now in a cancel culture where it seems everyone is getting offended very easily... We dont usually allow race play in public and it MAY stay that way. but for now. Posts like I have in the picture a...
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by on September 11, 2019
Owned by Goddess CopperLotus Today I took another step in my total submission to Goddess by asking Her if we can install Team Viewer (TV) on my machine?  Without any hesitation She said yes, which did not surprise me as we had discussed this in the past.  I downloaded and installed the program.  Goddess then asked for the id and password which I turned over immediately.  I saw my background go grey and the TV window pop up on my screen in the upper corner.  I knew that Goddess was now in ...
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by on September 10, 2019
  Dear Diary...Sitting at a Hooters Eatery on a Saturday night alone was not the bachelors dream date by far. The scenery was sublime to a lonely old pervert like me, old being about 42 if you can imagine that. A young woman maybe 25 at best younger if I let my mind wander a bit, she approached my table to take my order. My voice stammered a bit as my gaze fixated on her lovely bountiful chest. The whole time I stared and stammered out my order she just stood there smiling and writing it a...
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by on September 10, 2019
Have you found me, little one? The Domme of your dreams? The one you least expected to come? As I show more than I seem. Subtle yet Domme Aggressive yet calm Have you found me, little one? Caring yet fierce Tender yet cold As I pierce your soul into the depths of subspace Were you prepared for me? You wonder as you slip in and out of pleasure Only to be taken over by every measure To be driven to the deep darks of my imagination Then you awaken and realize it was just a dream As y...
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by on September 10, 2019
   Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and beginning training. Unfortunately, some of these have become quite relaxed in use.     The use of capital and lower case when addressing someone or your own name/pronouns indicated the role of submissive or Dominant. A Domme would never use a lower case "i" to refer to their self, that lower case indicates submission. Nor would their names be lower case.  ...
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by on September 9, 2019
Whilst looking at different profiles on various platforms there seems to be a plethora of payment systems subs can use to tribute their Domme. But still it seems quite common for subs to (perhaps stupidly) ask if they can tribute another way to those suggested in a Domme’s profile. I was wondering if this is because the sub is having to hide certain ways of paying from others in their life or if they felt their personal information could be mis used. So my question is - is there a payment platfo...
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by on September 9, 2019
I think the allure of the findom world attracts many people for different reasons. I guess I can't really speak for all dommes or subs however I think the issue is when: How do I know I'm speaking with someone genuine or at least share the same intentions. Am I speaking with a sub who is actually going to do deliver what he is promosing and not waste my time? Am I speaking with a domme who is going to provide what I need or ghost me after my tribute? It's even more frustrating when you google ab...
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by on September 8, 2019
I learned some things pretty quickly when I started online from social media and from some other amazing ladies online,one of the biggest things I learned was not to waste my own time,seems obvious doesn't it! I would see (and still do) the term time waster been used,I have used it myself but as someone pointed out to me,you only allow them to waste the time you give them You make the rules,you decide how much of your time you want to give away,you decide the point where you feel it has to...
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