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by on 11 hours ago
Lockdown is encouraging me to devote more time to this lifestyle. To read, absorb and learn. There are many individuals here who give freely of their experience, for which I am grateful, as we all should be. What is really fascinating is that there are so many different styles and ways of doing things, but the principles at the heart of the lifestyle are the same. What I do value is having respect for an approach which may be different to your own. Subs, if you are reading and wish to approac...
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by on 15 hours ago
Am I too bossy? Of course to some people I am. Am I too opinionated? Of course I am to some people. Am I too aggressive? Of course the answer is, to some people I am. I have no qualms going after what I want. If you are too scared to handle a strong woman like me, kick rocks dirty socks. Go get in the hamper where you belong with all the other dirty items. Do you think I am too bitchy? If you do thats on you boo. Do you find me too intimidating? of course you do. I am always that way to alot ...
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by on January 16, 2021
Given the damn virus that is running rampant around the globe, I choose NOT to do cashmeets or real time sessions of any kind. I know many others are risking their lives just to put food on the table and pay bills. I wonder though, at what point would someone like me who takes their health VERY seriously decide to do something in real time. What would be the price that gets you out the door? Or Better yet, what would make you allow someone in your domain to session with you? Boys also, how is...
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by on January 16, 2021
I have a virtually free task for you boys. I have a favorite toe ring. It was given to me some time back. It is very sentimental. I have lost one of the stones in it. All I can remember of the place that supposedly created it was that it had two ladies names in it,, but I cannot for the love of money remember them. I would like to replace the ring itself with a new one. I plan on replacing the lost stone, but I want one to wear as I plan to retire the other one for personal reasons. it is a dou...
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by on January 16, 2021
From My blog at Mistress Kiara's Dungeon In case you didn’t notice, things are looking great for the coming year! In 2020, I made over 6 figures with Domination as My only source of income, and there’s no WAY I’m stopping in 2021! I know things were a bit concerning with the SISEA bill, but thanks to the ‘lame duck’ period, it has been thrown out. It’s not QUITE a victory, since they could just easily reintroduce the bill (or a similar one), but at least it’s no longer an imminent threat! ...
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by on January 15, 2021
photo upload   As many of you know because you have received a message from me that we are VERY strict on pic uploads. Many sites have shut down because of fosta/sesta guidelines because the wording is so loose no one knows how to make their TOS.  We have a site here where money is exchanged for adult activity so that makes us a PRIME target under this law. I try to curb nudity and real time meets to help us not fall under the child trafficking targeted in these laws.   Are we T...
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by on January 12, 2021
Beware the old scambait posts ladies. Learn to spot them. Learn NOT to fall for them. Save your time and efforts for subs that deserve them. Scambait posts are posted generally to garner less than deserved attention for free. These posts can come in various forms, depending on the posters fetishes.  Another type of scambait post is the flagrantly angryor stupid one, meant to incite anger in the domme. Once angered by the words in the post, the domme usually lays into the sub with very angry ...
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by on January 9, 2021
It is fun to receive gifts, that is a no brainer. Receiving gifts should be rather easy. That would be true if it werent for porch pirates. Porch pirates dont discriminate. Porch pirates strike anywhere and everywhere. They are a plague on gift receivers everywhere. So you might be wondering possibly what a porch pirate is. It is pretty much what it seems. It is a person or persons that steal packages off your porch. They tend to do it when they think you arent home. Some are even brazen enou...
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by on January 7, 2021
Step 1. Apply for service. yes, much like a job you need to apply to serve me. There is a process and if you dont like it, kick rocks bub. My life, my rules. Step 2. Send required monies to my desired payment option for the application. Yes, you have to fill it out entirely. Blank portions will result in me garnishing additional fees for me having to point it out. $15 for every information cell left blank or incomplete. I will not accept your application until all fees are paid if there are m...
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by on January 6, 2021
Ladies this one is mainly pointed to you. But it can also be of use to the submissive who have been through the abuse that this industry can dish out.   Last year has been rough on all of us. Most have spent 6 months of the year in lockdown. Forced to distance from family and friends. Ad the abusive messages the adult industry can dish out. For the ladies, I know you have had messages from people telling you to get a job or fat or age shaming which I have been through. I am lucky enough to...
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by on January 5, 2021
Keep in mind that not all of us have the same form of etiquette when it comes to approaching us. So I will lay it out easiest for the ones looking to approach me. Address me as Madame. I want this because unlike many I have been doing this for the past 20 years. I know what I am doing and I know what I want. Experience means that I expect more from submissives wishing to serve me.  Introduce yourself. Not just the basics such as your age and country you are located. This makes sure that ...
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by on January 2, 2021
UPDATE SISEA was thrown out but only because of the ‘lame duck’ period — meaning that nobody in the Senate wanted to put any effort into anything when there was so little time before the next elects were set to come in. It’s a win, but not a victory, since another Senator (or even the same ones) could just come in and submit the same or a similar bill once everything is settled with the new crew of Senators.  What SISEA Will Mean for the World of Sex Work and Internet Pornography: SISEA...
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