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by on August 9, 2020
 The last time I had a man in subspace, he ended up totally naked in an alley near my house, after we took a little trip to the ATM. He was clearly in another state. Conscious and alert, but totally at my will. It was a big responsibility (and an honor, I might add) and we had a lot of fun.  I'm curious about the concept of subspace, and how important it is to you, as a domme or a sub, to achieve it during play? For subs, do you feel that you enter subspace, even a little, every time you p...
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by on August 6, 2020
Recently, I've seen a lot of people especially guys calling other guys "simps" who buy content from women on sites like onlyfans, patreon and others. Or pay to view them on chaturabte and other related sites. This seems relvant here because Dommes also sell content or do cam shows. I know not all Dommes do that. Everyone's different. But, for those who do, men are being discouraged from buying their services. Their arguement is why spend money on them when they'll never date you or meet you or b...
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by on August 5, 2020
Of course both Dommes and subs are human,there is more to us than a title but sometimes I think it  can be forgotten (on both sides) that there is still a person with feelings behind the dominance or submission  Now speaking personally here I think there may be misconceptions that a Domme is heartless, they don't care and such, and that we shouldn't show any emotion or our human side as it makes us seem less dominant, I am more than some kink dispenser  I also think a subs human side gets ...
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by on August 3, 2020
Compliments, do you enjoy them or is it just pointing out the obvious? Now I am not saying I don't like or enjoy compliments or subs should not give me any but what I do find when a sub compliments the same thing especially on multiple pictures and stuff then the whole thing tends to be a bit watered down Telling me how dominant and powerful I am (for me personally) is not a compliment it is just pointing out the already obvious I also think compliments become watered down if that is th...
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by on July 31, 2020
Trust and respect are just as important as consent in a healthy d/s relationship. There are some people out there in our community even - that think that being a submissive means that they will do anything a dominant says. Just because they aren't a real submissive if they don't. But that’s not how a healthy d/s relationship works, it’s a two way connection.  Submission is not something given lightly. Submission is usually only given to those that are deserving of that level of trust. The key...
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by on July 31, 2020
In my opinion there are subs and customers A sub wants to serve and a customer is just that, someone who wants to pay for  something and that is it There have been times someone has wanted a session with me but they have been worried that I would only do one if they were serving me, they are not into financial domination, they don't want to serve in any capacity they just want a session. I will consider sessions whether they be one off or something more frequent and anything inbetween, I w...
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by on July 30, 2020
I know the title probably sounds action packed, it isn't anything like that though. Got married at 19, created the life I thought I always wanted. I was being controlled and manipulated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go to the store alone, go to bars, wear "provocative" clothing, spend money on myself or things that would make me happy. I began losing weight and he got angry with me because other men at the gym must have been looking at me.  I found out at 23, he had been cheating since ...
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by on July 30, 2020
First impressions count! So your approach matters  When someone approaches me I quickly learn about them, their approach will  also determine if I give them any of my time, for example if someone sends me a message barley stringing a sentence together I just won't bother to reply,why waste my energy on someone who clearly can't put any effort in!  You also need to make yourself stand out from the 100s of other "hi" or "I want to serve you messages" Now you may  think about how scary it ...
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by on July 29, 2020
I'm wondering what are your other fetishes do you have that makes you want to SPEND..... My personal favorites are : Forced Bi <<<< My absoulte fave of all time. Home-Wrecking Financial Ruin Consensual Blackmail/ Fantasy! BBC/Strap-on Foot Worship Cock and Ball Torture Ebony Ass Worship Tease and denial   If you want to know why forced bi ( or any of MY fetishes are  so exciting to me feel free to shoot me a message ;  https://www.niteflirt.com/niina#chat ...
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by on July 28, 2020
Since I have been back I have had the pleasure of playing with a few subs. Each one I learn more and more from so in a way I’m grateful for them. However, I have noticed something strange. I talk to them and they tell me they want to serve and be owned. That’s all fine and good. But after awhile they ghost or give some excuse and poof! They are gone. Is it me? Many dommes would say it’s them or something else about how men suck. Idk. Has anyone else had this? I feel like it might be the sub only...
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by on July 27, 2020
And before anyone says it, im almost positive that if ive blocked someone they cant be reading this, but im not posting it to any specific person. This is more of a warning so people can adapt it and use it to to their benefit. If ive blocked you there was a very good reason im sure. Were you obsessively liking literally all of my posts? Were you constantly commenting on my posts? I dont always like being the object of someone's obsession.Were you being of any true benefit to me? If the answe...
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by on July 25, 2020
”A spider’s web is stronger than it looks. Although it is made of thin, delicate strands, the web is not easily broken.” - EB WHITE [Charlotte’s Web] I returned from my hiatus profoundly more confident - I knew rejoining the community would prove to be substantial and purposeful. Not only for me as an individual, but for my life. I felt like I was going back to my home of sorts, my comfort zone; where I thrive and feel eager for better things. Upon my resurrection to fetish work, I found that...
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