by on July 13, 2018

When in the course of findom events we must always have our wits about us. We should know that we cannot put everyone in one category. Even though it may be a slight inconvenience to some we just cant. One thing we must remember is that not everyone is the same. People for different reasons like different things. Just because they are involved in the findom fetish doesnt mean they fit one precise model of character nor should they be made to. We are all different and unique in our own ways and should feel proud to be so.

A few things to remember... Not every sub is a "paypig" or likes to be called one or anything derivative of the word pig. Not every sub considers themselves a loser and may very well feel offended at being called one, which is in their right to do so. Try to avoid the blanket terms such as the two examples above. There are many more that exist or that you can turn into one, just know that not everyone fits under any one term, so you may be doing more harm than good when you advertise for such.

I would sincerely hope that the boys on site would feel free to voice their opinions on this subject. I think all topics for discussion should be all inclusive to promote open and honest communication. For without communication a foundation will crumble and eventually fall.