by on August 9, 2018

Safety online is important for Dommes and subs. Here are some tips to keep you safe online.

1) Do not post any personal information online such as your address, email address or mobile number. Make a separate email address for all kink associated activity.


2) Do not post same pictures or videos of yourself on both your vanilla and kink profiles. Google search can make it easy for people to find you.  Try this on your own pictures, can be interesting. 


3) Keep your privacy settings as high as possible and be careful with things like Teamviewer unless you know what you are doing. Do not give in to pressure to try before knowing what consequences are.


4) Never give out your passwords. Subs I know this is fun, but be careful whom you give it to. You can make new accounts with a loadable credit card attached if you really want to give out that account, but with a set amount available.


5) Not everyone is what or who they say they are. If you feel they are lying, most times you will be correct. Do your homework and keep notes.


6) If you feel uncomfortable, unsafe or worried: walk away. Best to trust your gut.


7) Never give out your banking information or credit card numbers. For those that do want to give out the card numbers, get a loadable card to play with.


8) If something sounds too good to be true, most times it is fake. 


9) Think carefully about what you say before you post something online, loose lips sink ships-lol. When people start chatting they rarely realize how much personal information they are giving.


10) Be selective about who you choose to chat with, befriend, collar, etc..


11) Beware of 3rd party vendors on Amazon. They have been known to give out home addresses.


12) If someone seems unstable,  best to avoid. If you decide to continue with them, suggest they seek therapy. Unless you are a trained therapist, let a professional handle it.


Trust your instincts. Be safe. Have fun. Please feel free to add more safety tips in the comments.