Madame Raven
by on November 2, 2019
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Far too many times have I come across subs, telling me that they have been mistreated or badly handled before and it gets to me everytime. Because as a Domme myself I can't see how anyone would abuse the trust that needs to be in a D/s relationship for it to reach its true potential.

Now I haven't been in this game very long but frankly this pisses me off. Giving people trust issues, hurting them just for your own pleasure just sickens me. Being a sub shows immense strength and I truly admire every single one who is willing to submit to someone. It takes courage, strength and a certain kind of sensitivity that not a lot of people possess. So to take advantage of this and treat them like shit is something I have a hard time dealing with.

As a Domme myself I care very deeply for my submissives. It's just as important to me that their needs are met and tended to since it is my job as their Domme to take care of them just as they take care of me. It is still a give and take relationship and it makes me really upset that not everyone seems to agree with me on this. Don't hurt people who are undeserving of that treatment. Hell, don't treat people badly at all. Ignore the ones who are undeserving of your attention, don't hurt people.

Lastly I just wanted to give a message to not only my subs but to every sub out there. Remember your own worth! A Domme is only as strong and powerful as the subs who serve them. So work your hardest to be the best sub you can be for a Domme who deserve it. Also remember to take your time, choose your Domme with care and get to know them properly before you give in to their every desire. Before you find someone worthy to take care of you, take care of yourselves!