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by on July 24, 2020
Over the years I think this comes up so often that it is about time we talk about it.    Whale: The definition of a whale changes depending on who you talk to and how long they have been in this business. My definition is this. A whale is someone who drops a four digit or more tip on top of your normal rates. They are as rare but they happen. They usually last around about 3 to 6 months before they will move on to the next Mistress who rocks their world.    How to find them? This i...
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by on June 16, 2020
This is something that I can't seem to say enough.  Educate yourself. It could be anything from other fetishes to research how to be successful. I have three books I will recommend and why. Thriving in Sexwork by Lola Davina. This book is so important to read for some many reasons. Lola goes into detail about planning and why. She also takes the time to explain through experience why taking moments out for yourself is so needed. I took up her book in a time when I wasn't sure if this was even...
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by on February 26, 2019
I am excited. Recently found a local dom willing to put in the time to instruct me. This will be in the art of Shibari.  With anything in life, ongoing education is important. You cannot acquire too much information. One can always improve proficiency. Shibari is a Japanese word that literally means "to tie decoratively". I appreciate the beauty of the intricate knotwork. I am sure I could learn from books or videos on how to tie the designs. What I need an instructor for, is to teach the ...
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by on January 27, 2019
It sickens me to keep hearing from prospective subs that they are becoming less and less active on sites because of scammers and instas. You know who I am talking about. We have all run into them. The young over thirsty messaging the world “Fuck you, pay me” drama. There is a time and place to be greedy. There is a thing called manors and respect. Oh yes, and there is a thing call work. Put some effort into it. Granted there are many who have been labeled wrong. They are new and know very ...
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