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by on July 25, 2020
”A spider’s web is stronger than it looks. Although it is made of thin, delicate strands, the web is not easily broken.” - EB WHITE [Charlotte’s Web] I returned from my hiatus profoundly more confident - I knew rejoining the community would prove to be substantial and purposeful. Not only for me as an individual, but for my life. I felt like I was going back to my home of sorts, my comfort zone; where I thrive and feel eager for better things. Upon my resurrection to fetish work, I found that...
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by on July 24, 2020
Over the years I think this comes up so often that it is about time we talk about it.    Whale: The definition of a whale changes depending on who you talk to and how long they have been in this business. My definition is this. A whale is someone who drops a four digit or more tip on top of your normal rates. They are as rare but they happen. They usually last around about 3 to 6 months before they will move on to the next Mistress who rocks their world.    How to find them? This i...
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by on July 22, 2020
Imagine being at my feet while I work. Never knowing if I will call on you to bring me a drink or punish you for moving without permission. Today's tale is all about a teasing session given to one of my favorite little sissies. Take note. You never know when I may drop hints. I stand in the door letting the sunlight suround my curves. You are stuck on the other side of the room editing content I have you. Your view blocked by the computer monitor.    "Alright dear, It is time for some ...
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by on July 4, 2020
From My blog at Mistress Kiara's Dungeon Pick up the Slack! So as I’m sure you all know, things are still not great. Hell, things aren’t even “good” right now. The USA is going into a second COVID spike, this one even higher than the initial one. That means MANY have been furloughed, laid off, or just flat out fired. I bet lots of folks didn’t even make rent this month! Why am I talking about this on a femdom fetish website? Well, besides the fact that you should KNOW that I’m a Leftist...
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by on June 27, 2020
I have had a blast over the past few months exploring new ways to put the fun back in findom. I had to just take a step back because there seems to be so many that believe a hard bitchy persona is the only way to be.  There is nothing wrong with this way. I am just different. I am me. So here are just a few examples and keep in mind you must stay safe. Some of these are not possible while corona is still raging on. Do your research and make sure YOU are safe before you do anything. Shoppin...
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by on June 16, 2020
This is something that I can't seem to say enough.  Educate yourself. It could be anything from other fetishes to research how to be successful. I have three books I will recommend and why. Thriving in Sexwork by Lola Davina. This book is so important to read for some many reasons. Lola goes into detail about planning and why. She also takes the time to explain through experience why taking moments out for yourself is so needed. I took up her book in a time when I wasn't sure if this was even...
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by on June 7, 2020
Wow... Can you believe it's only been a month!? SO MUCH has happened! The moon is now in Sagittarius, and I am feeling that fiery energy! Black Lives Matter I would be remiss in My duties as a Leftist and honestly as a compassionate human being in general if I didn't address the current protests in the United States over the murder of George Floyd by the police. Anyone who follows Me on Twitter will know that I am 100% on the side of the protesters. No, I am not going to argue with you abo...
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by on May 30, 2020
Hey, Findoms! It's me again, back with another blog post about the intersection of gender and kink. What could go wrong, right?   It's a subject I love to think about, though. What does it mean to be "male" or "female?" What is masculine, and what is feminine? Where is the line drawn between "straight" and "queer?" Often, particularly in kink scenes, these questions come up even when we aren't actively thinking about them.   Take sissies, for example. What is it that draws so many me...
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by on May 9, 2020
What do I mean by salty? For those of use who have been around for a while (20 years for me), we have had new people comment with things such as: •You are to old to be doing this. •Why don't you give it up already and let me take over? •Ehh, who is going to pay for your sagging body when they can have mine! Let me explain something kindly. People pay for my content not because I am flashing my tits for free (you do you, no judgement), they pay for: •My style •My mind •My exp...
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by on April 18, 2020
Everyone who has looked into female domination has come across the practice of financial domination, or findom for short. However, there are many different flavors of financial domination. There are not only different personalities a femdom has concerning financial domination, but also the reasoning behind the economic sacrifice itself. You can find the full blog post on My personal website by clicking here » What is a tribute in FemDom? Tribute – an act, statement, or gift intended to sho...
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by on April 17, 2020
Let's just first state the obvious. It's a kink. For some Doms, its about the power exchange. They say that money is a sign of power, and giving them money is giving them power. It makes sense to me, but honestly, thats not what turns me on the most. I want the humiliation. I adore desperation in subs, and i adore humiliating them. The messages of ''sent, goddess'' are nice and can be hot too, but what i really want is the pleading. Men begging for my attention, being so desperate to please s...
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by on March 27, 2020
I am writting this blog to keep subs updated on my current Niteflirt available hours. I've had to change my hours around recently for personal reasons. My past hours were 8 pm to 2 am. Starting as of 3/27/20 my available hours are changing again. My new available hours for text chat and calls are 7 pm to 2 am central standard time.  The only day I am not available for text chat or calls is Sunday. I take at least one day away from everything to relax and have time to myself. If anything changes,...
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