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by on July 30, 2020
I know the title probably sounds action packed, it isn't anything like that though. Got married at 19, created the life I thought I always wanted. I was being controlled and manipulated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go to the store alone, go to bars, wear "provocative" clothing, spend money on myself or things that would make me happy. I began losing weight and he got angry with me because other men at the gym must have been looking at me.  I found out at 23, he had been cheating since ...
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by on June 13, 2020
  I've been finding it crucial during this time to make an extra effort to stay connected. I also enjoy being able to support as many local business( specifically black owned) as I can. I am blessed enough to able to support myself during this time, & I wanted to  share some resources with you.        As far as keeping in touch with subs goes, it has been absolutely vital to keep an open line of communication. In general I've been sensing there are plenty willing to please, but just keep ...
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by on February 26, 2019
It’s really interesting to see what people’s different styles are and what they prefer from their partners (Domme to sub or vice versa). Personally, I find my Domme side comes out more deceptively mean. It’s a very outwardly sweet style with it dripping in false niceties and backhanded compliments. Perhaps something aloofness the lines of “aw look how small you are, isn’t that just the cutest?” In that token, I’m just interested in what other styles people use and what works for them and their ...
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by on January 30, 2019
This is a rant more than anything. I have been in my feels the last week or so. Maybe it's because I'm tired of being sick and tired I dont know. I have been in the fetish world oh...probably about a good 10 or 11 years. Exploring, finding myself and figuring out what i want out of my life. I think just up until recently i kinda figured out where my headspace was and what I was trying to accomplish. I want to live my truth and I am no longer shamed by that. Yes, I am a Financial Dominatrix and t...
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by on December 16, 2018
Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...
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by on December 15, 2018
Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...
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by on October 22, 2018
Ok so Ive been thinking about this topic for awhile now and I want to see what everyone thinks? I see alot in the FinDom world Dommes having Alphas that are their boyfriends. I can see and totally understand that, but I wonder has any Domme thought of having a sub as a bf or husband? To be quite honest, I have always wanted to marry a sub. I would want to wake up and be served faithfully everyday from beginning to the end of my day. I'm hella into cuckolding too so of course I'd be able to do as...
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by on October 10, 2018
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by on October 6, 2018
Lately I've had this confusion of what serving me is and also what having a session with me. Generally what I do is get to know a little bit about my subs before I see why they are inquiring. I'll ask if they are trying to serve me or why are they here. I've had some subs be astonished when I tell them how much it is to be under my consideration for a slave. Serving me, is a daily priviledge which involves tasks and duties in which my subs have to fulfill. As you see here, key words, priviledge....
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by on September 16, 2018
Those eyes look straight through his pretense. No matter how well he plays the part, She knows he aches for Her command. So, She obliges. Nothing too obvious, just a simple, "Hey, if you've got a minute..." and, "Oh! Would you mind...?" The beaming smile and the sudden pep in his step give him away immediately. If he'd had a tail, the sound of his name alone prefacing these requests would resemble the daily reunion between a puppy and the Mistress who adopted him. The thought of being, eve...
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by on September 8, 2018
It's that time of the week again, when you're feeling that ache ...that need...that want. When you have had a few drinks, or you're bored in front of the telly with your wide. That itch only sending can scratch. That relief, satisfied in one send. Delicious.   Amazon, circle, Paypal. goddess.hatty@gmail.com
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by on September 4, 2018
There are many kinds of submissives. Each type with their own dynamic. Within each type of relationship, there are different expectations. Here are a few types: 1. Lifestyle or 24/7 365 days a year- This submissive is not a temporary submissive. They live their life for the submission to their One. Many have contracts and all have lengthy discussions on what is expected, allowed, and not allowed within the relationship. These submissive relationships are usually sexual and long term. To the...
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