I am a Goth , a Goddess, an Enchantress, a Dominatrix , and a Queen.
All wrapped up in an irresistibly voluptuous package. I wanted a unique title that fit the complex , rebellious and dark being I am.

Gothess It's mysterious and alluring. It boldly demands attention and intention when saying or typing it out. It sticks in your mind and celebrates the beauty of goth culture.
Most of all , it reminds Me that My power was formed when I truly started to embrace My differences and how strange I truly am. When I realized I don't fit in a box and that is thrilling. I love being different and it reminds Me every day to never compromise that for acceptance.

Though I have no qualms with the traditional titles Mistress, Goddess, Lady, Madame, etc, Your title should make you feel powerful and I firmly believe we as Dominants should have a choice.
I am a Gothess and I expect to be addressed as such.

What is the one thing that you have been pressured since you were cognizant enough to understand it to gain the most of?
What is the one thing that you are the most hesitant to give up vast amounts of?
What is the one thing that you've been told gets you women? Gets you assets? And most importantly, gets you power?

It's the cash that lines your pockets, cushions your credit cards and fills your accounts. 

It scares you to lose it, and being a findom-intrigued or addicted beta, that fear propels your arousal. As the risk grows, your veins rush to pump more blood to that throbbing need between your legs. And by giving Me your money, you give Me further power. I get to dangle your fears and arousal on the same string, so close but not enough to reach it and take it back. You so willingly handed it over, and I would never even give the thought of returning it enough energy to manifest. 

I don't care if you find discomfort in it because discomfort walks hand in hand with submission. By submitting, you've given some of your autonomy away to Me, to torment you and reformat each detail of your existence to My liking. Giving it up means you want to achieve the newest level of deep mindfuck, to see how deep the rabbit hole is and how roughly I can submerge you into it by the throat. Whether through sensual seduction or brutality, you find your path and open your wallet, and though the pit in your stomach may grow, it's soon overshadowed by how turned on you are and how much you grow to worship every detail of My perfection.

Sacrifice is a lifestyle to you. An addiction, a fascination and a constant fixture in your brain. 
To Me, it's a luxurious sport.

First is like common gems that you can easily see find anywhere

Has value but not that much since they can easily be found in many places

These slaves are like that you will meet anytime, will serve you but will soon vanish

And will serve other dommes coz they are lowly pathetic and easy to replace, really low quality

The second type of slave and sub is like "Diamonds" very rare to find but has the highest value

These type of slaves are the toughest and rough at first, they needed more attention, and dommes needed to make a relationship and connection 

Just like the diamonds, it needed to put under a lot of pressure to be shiny, sparkly and has the highest worth

They pledge their loyalty to their domme with all their heart and will serve them until their last breath

They will put their domme above all and will always please her

They know what is their purpose and doesn't need to be reminded what to do

Now tell me, what kind of slave or sub are you? 

Then we will have a blast of Olympic slave

I'm thinking of a race track on the mud while slaves are naked running with both hands and feet

Right now, my farm is under construction and I'm making a dungeon

How much should I charge a slave to stay per night at my dungeon? 

Usually, I visit her in person near her birthday but this year, in the covid 19 era, that is not feasible. Maybe next year, sigh. I say near her birthday as the actual day is celebrated with her friends and family.

As for celebration details, I am writing this before the big day. So too much infirmation would spoil the surprise factor.

I enjoy celebratinhg her birthday. It allows me another opportunity to spoil her.

Thank you, Mistress Pauley, for letting me celebrate with you.

It turns out that the supposed sub was actually a domme in disguise. I dont know quite yet what their motive was to do this. Why bother spending your own money or some subs money to essentially "spy" on someone? I thought id seen it all but apparently not,lol. Im still a little confused by all of this chicanery. I of course had to laugh as I dismissed this person from my life. Why, just why?

This is of course only my opinion, so take it however you wish.

When speaking publicly or even in private your dominant nature is very important to impart on your audience. You dont want to seem less dominant than you are. The above phrases are more suited for the boys to speak to us ladies than it is for us to use when speaking to the boys. People want to serve dominant women, not people that try and play a dominant role. Please be civil and provide your two cents on the matter in the comments section below. I look forward to a lively debate or discussion.

Never use Paypal for sex work (financial domination is sex work by Paypal's standards), it is against their terms of service. If they think you have gone against TOS, they will hold your account. You can kiss that money goodbye, almost impossible to get back if you did break the terms of service. Never post your PayPal-me link pubically. 

Another scam involves your phone number. Never give it out to a stranger. There is so much a thief can get from your number especially paired with an email address. These can be used to get more information on you to get your personal accounts and your life.

To really new ladies to this kink, Amazon does not allow sex workers to even use their website. They will hold the balance of gift cards on your account if you are suspected of breaking TOS. Do not post your Amazon account publically and do not put gift cards into your account that have messages attached that speak of sex work (i.e. "Thank you Mistress", "from your piggie", etc.).

Keep your identity and money safe. Trust your gut feelings. Do not let a sub dictate to you how you are paid. Good luck.

I do not need you. I have my own money, I just enjoy adding yours to my account.

I am not going to send you nudes, or sell my clothing, or perform for you. The natural order is you are here for my amusement.

I am not going to drain you dry. Broken toys are useless. I expect you to live a certain way, in a manner that I can be proud of owning you.

Quit being lazy, kneel only if you are prepared to work hard to become mine.

Knowing conversion rates can be very helpful. Money does not have equal values. I asked if that was 1000 American dollars or Rupees. He said it was rupees.

Now if you don't know conversion rates, then you are not necessarily aware that is less than $14 American. I kindly told him good luck in his search. It definitely helps to know conversion rates. $14 a month...No.

So, this is a fetish/lifestyle for me. For many it  is a job, etc. So I look for 'submissives'. And many look for 'customers'. You should read up on BDSM, power exchange, role reversals, and fetishes, SSC, etc. Those types of things can be lifestyle oriented or professionally done. Dominatrix is a professional, and a lifestyle domme is not. I dont want 'customers'. I dont want someone to pay me to do whatever their fantasy is. I am instead paid, as a form of power exchange. I look for those who understand that there is freedom in their submission. That means I do not have things for sale, schedule sessions, etc. And kudos to those that enjoy that dynamic of financial domination. Finding your way of dominating, is key. 

Once you figure out what you want - you will attract those interested in what you want. It'll become easier to recognize patterns, and through experience and dealing with the subs, you'll spot the ones who arent worth your time. 

I suggest reading and doing some research, and basically just being yourself. Dont try and change and fit the mold, because most honest boys can see that a mile away. Find out what you want, how you want it - and dont give in. It will take time to settle into something comfortable. The entire community is saturated by folks seeing someone else do something, and they copy it. You will find success, by being yourself and bringing what only you can bring to the table.

 I hope this wasnt confusing and I hoped it helped! Please ask more questions if you have them.